To NEVER need to dwell in negativity...
You must not focus on avoiding negativity because avoidance implies attention, and attention on anything only attracts more of that thing...
The paradox is to be ok with the feeling of negativity, validate it as an equal choice
Then chose to focus on the seed within it carrying an equal or greater positive opportunity
Your redefining focus will always transmute a seemingly obvious Negative circumstance into something that has no choice but to benefit you in a positive way
So be excited for negative challenging times